Do you feel you have to do everything yourself? I used to feel that way until I found myself in an exhausted heap. That’s about the time I discovered that some of history’s most accomplished people learned the secret of smart work.
Do you remember the story about Moses appointing judges (Exodus 18)? Moses had led thousands of Israelites out of Egypt. He served as their only judge, hearing and resolving all of their disputes. (Mediating our children’s disputes is a tiring job. Can you imagine breaking up spats between thousands?)
Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law saw that Moses was going to wear himself out and wind up in a loony bin (my description). When Jethro asked Moses why he was doing all the work by himself, Moses said, “Because the people come to me to seek God’s will.” (Exodus 18:14-15)
I can relate to Moses’ response—doing things because they need doing. But sometimes I need to stop and ask myself about the “why” and “how” of my work. Jethro told Moses that there were other well-qualified men standing around doing nothing and that Moses needed to delegate. (Sounds like Moses was working hard but not smart.)
Some of us need a Jethro—someone to shake us out of the belief that we have to do everything ourselves. Can I be that person for you today? YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO IT ALL YOURSELF. Hire a babysitter periodically or swap babysitting with a friend. If you are able, get someone to help you with housework. They may not do it exactly as you would. But, so what? When our kids were toddlers, my friend and I joined forces and cleaned our houses together while our kids played. We finished a lot quicker than when we cleaned our houses separately. When either of us did shopping at the big warehouse store, we’d pick up things for one another. Figure out your own way to delegate and share duties. You’ll be happier and so will your family.
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